You know why it hurts so bad when people dont take you seriously after coming out?

Because you spend YEARS figuring out your identity, learning to accept it and just trying to allow yourself to be different while constantly hearing hate being spewed onto people like you and knowing you’ll get the same treatment. All of this was such a difficult and painful journey. You went through so much emotionally just to have one of the most important people for you say ‘nah, you’re wrong’. Bitch i’ve been analysing it for years, im p sure im an expert here. Also i know how big are the consequences of being out??? Its not like one day i went ‘being opressed? I’d love to try that!’